design your life

Getting to ‘the what’

When I first talk with my clients I focus on them discovering what would truly make them happy.  I call this ‘the what’.  We take a step back from where you are in your life and understand what is working, and what isn’t.  A client I was working with recently thought that everything was wrong.  However, once we looked at each area of her life individually using a very simple exercise, she could see that in fact it was only a couple of things that needed attention and way forward began to show itself.  

Once you discover ‘the what’; we can then focus on ‘how’.  People who try to make changes alone often make the big mistake of wanting to know ‘how’ before they plump for ‘the what’.  The secret is that until you get absolutely clear on ‘what’ you want and declare that this is it! (without needing to know ‘how’ you are going to create it) you simple won’t be able to work out ‘how’.  Truth be told if you knew ‘how’ to do something you’d be doing it already!  

Once we have the ‘how’ we then create a plan and ensure, with you being accountable to yourself, that you achieve what you want.

But I’ve tried to follow a plan before, I hear you cry!

Maybe you have, but if you haven’t looked at the limiting decisions you’ve made about yourself and how the world works; those unconscious beliefs that stop you every time, then it is very hard to create what you want.  Neuro Linguistic Programming – the science behind how the unconscious works - can help you shift those limitations and really get you rolling.

You will become a positive influence in your own life, changing the way you communicate both with yourself and others, and you will go on to produce the big changes you want in your life.

You have all the answers inside they are just hidden; the good news is that I can help you find those answers.  Whatever your situation, your work with me will enable you to become the author of your own journey and I can help you to success in whatever area of your life you choose to focus on.

Take a look at the One on One page to see if now is the right time for you to have me on your side.

And you can sign up now to receive my monthly Connections ezine and get access to the archive.  Each month it contains an article based on a theme, e.g. clear communication, acknowledging your own progress, or creating easy steps towards your goals, and gives you useful easy tips and tools to make progress in your life.

You can also take the First Steps quiz – by taking the time to contemplate these few questions you can begin to see a the bigger picture, which is the first step to making the changes you want.  You will receive a copy of your first steps so you can print them out and have them as a useful reminder.